Saturday, June 13, 2009

Losing Control to Anger.

Like Bruce Banner said, "You wouldn't like me when i'm angry," this phrase sings true to me too.

I think i'm one person who's slow to anger, but it doesn't mean i never get frustrated at all.

One of the fears i have, is to stay angry with another, more so with Melissa D. At times, she can really drive me up the wall, or 'hurt' me.

But i really can't stay angry with her for long, as it wouldn't be fair for the both of us. I remember a close friend telling me that if the man in the relationship isn't happy or confident, the woman can't be as well.

Another told me that there're two elements that can't be denied in a relationship - conflict and sexual tension.

Anyway, it does take effort to calm myself down, and when all's okay, i do enjoy the time we spend together. Without bad and down times, we wouldn't enjoy the good times, eh? And who does enjoy stagnant relationships, eh? It should be dynamic, and everchanging - for the best.

"...And I can't stand you
Must everything you do make me wanna smile
Can I not like you for awhile?

But you won't let me
You upset me girl
And then you kiss my lips
All of a sudden I forget (that I was upset)
Can't remember what you did

But I hate it...
You know exactly what to do
So that I can't stay mad at you
For too long that's wrong

But I hate it...
You know exactly how to touch
So that I don't want to fuss.. and fight no more
Said I despise that I adore you

And I hate how much I love you boy
I can't stand how much I need you
And I hate how much I love you boy
But I just can't let you go
And I hate that I love you so...."

Taken from Hate That I Love You by Rihanna feat. Ne-Yo

Few nights back, both Melissa D and i watched Demons and Angels, it was a good thriller film. But like many of my friends said, it would be better to read it straight from the novel.

And from the movie, i give Dan Brown the thumbs up for doing his research well. But what he has done was to take pieces of facts, sew it up with a 'fiction' string, and present it as another piece of 'facts'.

That's why a lot of religious parties were all railed on the issue, especially when the other book/movie, The Da Vinci Code (which i watched) was out. Hence, knowledge is power, and knowing what's right and what's wrong put you ahead of a lot of things.

A few weeks back, both of us watched a few movies, including:

Terminator Salvation
This is a good sci-fi and action film. But the film doesn't really focus on John Connor, the leader of the Resistance, but on another character, Marcus Wright. Thus, some die hard fans for the earlier Terminator films might not enjoy it that much.

From how the movie ended, there are bound to be one or two more movies, which hopefully, will be show how John will lead the Resistance against Skynet and its machines.

Star Trek
I'm no trekkie, but this is one movie i did enjoy.  It does bring a fresh air to the series (and movie), which has disappeared from the tube for awhile now.

Focusing on the U.S.S Enterprise crew's first 'official' mission against an unknown enemy with advance weaponary, this movie is it a re-vamp from the original. Don't miss out Leonard Nimoy's appearance in the film.

I love you, Man
This is obviously a dude-flick, as oppose to a chick flick. About a man, who is about to be married, but has to find a guy to be his best man, which turns out to be a hilarious journey of friendship and what it takes to be a man!

If you enjoyed watching Forgeting Sarah Marshall, you might enjoy this 'man movie' as well. (both movies feature Jason Segel in them!)

Anyway, looking forward to watch Monsters Vs Aliens, Up, and Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen.

Love & Peace!~



Simpleton said...

I've learnt one thing about all relationships. They come in two packages; good and bad. It's the same with life, we get shit thrown at us and we're pissed.When bliss comes along we happily dance and sing. So to quote you,

"And who does enjoy stagnant relationships, eh? It should be dynamic, and everchanging - for the best."

You said it right. Cherish the bad and good times.

By the way, go and watch Monsters VS Aliens for Seth Rogen a.k.a BOB. He saves the entire movie. :P

BlurChu? said...

Thanks, bro! In this relationship, there's something to learn everyday.

And Monsters Vs Aliens was fun lah... but kinda short. B.O.B. did save the movie in the end.